Mindfulness Exercise: Three Minute Breathing Space
The purpose of the 3-minute breathing space is to help you step out of automatic pilot and access a clearer state of mind instead of reacting mindlessly to the negative thoughts created by your mind. This exercise can help you slow down so you can respond more skillfully to stressful situations and use different approaches to relate to your thoughts. Remember the goal of this exercise isn't to take away negative feelings.
Awareness
Sit upright in a comfortable position and close your eyes. Start by bringing your awareness to your inner experience. Ask yourself, "What is my experience right now? What thoughts are going through my mind? What bodily sensations are present?" Don't try to push away negative feelings. Simply be present with what is there.
Gathering
Next gently redirect your attention to the physical sensations of your breath. Follow the breath all the way in and all the way out. Notice the sensations and movement in your belly. Use your breath to anchor yourself to the present.
Expanding
Now expand the field of your awareness around your breathing so that it includes a sense of your body as a whole. If you sense tension or discomfort, breath into it as you soften and open. On the out-breath, you can say, "It's okay...whatever it is, it's already here. Let me feel it."
Adapted from: Williams, Teasdale, Segal and Kabat-Zinn. The Mindful Way Through Depression: Freeing Yourself From Chronic Unhappiness, 2007.
Laura L.C. Johnson, MBA, MA, LMFT
Certified Cognitive Therapist by the Academy of Cognitive Therapy
Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley, Adult & Child Counseling, Inc.
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, MFC48807
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